Nielson Family

New years

2012-01-01T13:40:00.000-08:00

We had a quiet New years eve at the house this year just our family. We did have fondue with Martinelli's, but everyone except Jordan was asleep before midnight. This morning the kids woke up, and the wise men must have found them. They were happy to have a few lingering gift this Christmas season to open, but it was quick since Church is now at 9am

I told Skyler we could see about having a party next year so that he could have some friends around, he is getting old enough that he would be thrilled to get to stay up.

Thinking about new years, new beginnings, goals and resolutions. 2011 was not a nice year for us, although we do have much to be grateful for, and I would rather have another 2011 and have my Dad with me then have an easy 2012 and know that it will be a long time before I get to see and talk to him again. But this is the reality that we have to live with and we are going to find a way to be happy, have as much fun as we can. We are going to make memories, take pictures and enjoy the many blessings that we have been given.

This year I want to make sure that I make time for those things that are best for me. I am really good at scheduling my time and can accomplish a great deal, but am I accomplishing the things that matter most? My family, my husband and Children, My mom and brothers. I am going to make sure that I am giving my best to the relationships that matter.

We are busy developing the basement so that my Mom can move in, and I am excited and nervous at the same time for all that it will bring.

This year I am going to be a better me, and part of that is taking time for me!

Christmas 2011

2012-01-01T13:15:00.000-08:00

This Christmas was hard. Harder than I expected, and I think harder than we were really prepared for, but we still managed to make some good memories as a family, and my Mom ensure that we were busy.

Christmas eve was at our place since we now have room for everyone, and we had planned to see Arthur Christmas, come home and decorate gingerbread houses, talk to Stephen for his call home, have some appetizers and finger food and go to bed. Mom added a few things to that list.

As a family (minus the kids) we went to visit Dad's grave, this was only my second time going out to the grave since we had to say good by 3 months earlier and I cried, It all felt so wrong and unfair. Dad is supposed to be here to share in fun family traditions, and instead we were adding a new tradition of visiting the place where he is burried knowing that he isn't there, but feeling the need to go all the same.

Now this is where Mom kicked things up a notch. She insisted that she needed a pedicure and was taking all 5 girls (that includes Ryley) out to get pedicures and the boys were all going bowling. Ryley loved having someone rub her little feet and paint her tiny nails, and she sat very well for it.

Then we had to have some lunch and she treated us all to Chinese food (I might have had some say in where we went to eat, I was really craving some good Chinese). Then we only had about an hour in a half until it was time to go to the movie.

It made the day a lot busier, but it was fun all the same.

The kids all got new pj's to open, and it was really fun to see how excited Ethan was with his pj's, he more or less ran all over the house screaming "I love them, I love my new skeleton jammies"

After quickly getting kids to bed Jordan and I cleaned up from the evenings festivities, and set out the gift for Christmas morning.

This year Chirstmas was on a Sunday and it was nice to kind of drag out the day. We had breakfast and opened presents with Melanie's family before church, then went to 1pm Sacrament and spent the remainder of the day with Jordan's family where we had a wonderful Turkey dinner with some great company.

I just wanted to include some pictures of Ryley from a photo shoot Jordan did with her before Church.

New Home

2012-01-01T13:04:00.000-08:00

We moved on December 15th, just over 1 week before Christmas, and we feel very blessed to be where we are. Jordan was put to work almost immediately on projects to help us be better organized. One of those was storage in the garage. We have 13 foot ceilings in the garage, so he built storage coming down instead of shelves on the ground. He and his Dad put in some good hours one day and they were done, now we have to fill them with storage - although that will not be a problem.

The second project was a locker system in the mudroom. I LOVE how they turned out, and love the independence that it gives the kids to be responsible for their own coat shoes etc. The kids also enjoy being able to be more independent, so it is a win win situation.

I will post some pictures of the rest of the house shortly.

Skylers Christmas Concert

2012-01-01T12:51:00.000-08:00

This was Skylers first Christmas Concert (they didn't have one when he was in kindergarten) and he did wonderful. I loved going to see him preform. He was soo mad that he wasn't wearing shoes, but refused to wear his sunday shoes when we were leaving and his boots stayed at the front door of the school. I am excited to see how he grows throughout his school years.

The cutest cow you ever did see

2011-12-19T16:21:00.000-08:00

Ethan had a preschool Christmas Concert today and I was soo impressed. Skyler went to a preschool in Cranston, and though it was convenient, I didn't love it, so when it was Ethans turn we found a new one to try, and I have been soo impressed, I mean just look at those costumes.
Ethan was a little cow, and the cutest cow ever! He was soo excited that he totally forgot to sing, oh well he was happy.

A Day to Party

2011-12-10T19:20:00.001-08:00

Today was a day to Party. We had a kids Christmas Party for my Mom's work this morning, and then Jordan's kids Christmas Party this afternoon at Shakers.
At Moms the kids got to decorate cookies, there was a face painter, 2 bouncy houses, pizza, cakes, and if course Santa came. I think the best gift for the kids was a purple and pink leaptop for Ryley. I can send her little e-mails and it will read them to her!

Jordan's kids Christmas Party was at Shakers and the kids had a blast playing all of the games. Skyler and Ethan played Laser tag, although a few minutes in Ethan decided that he didn't like it. Skyler tried the climbing wall for the first time and did fantastic. I told him if he made it to the top that I would give him $2 - he made it about 2/3. And of course Santa paid a visit to the kids.

Tonight I have 3 very tired, but very happy children. I LOVE Christmas time!

Swimming Lessons

2011-12-10T19:13:00.000-08:00

We finished our second round of swimming lessons for the year. Ryley really wished that she could be in the water to, but is too young to go by herself. The boys did great, they are basically fish now. Skyler will repeat swimmer 2 again, but Ethan passed preschool 2 (apparently 3rd time really is the one)
The pictures turned our horrible. Ethan had a male teacher for the first time, and just loved him; I am certain that it made all the difference.

A trip downtown

2011-12-10T19:12:00.000-08:00

I had to make a trip down town to get the real property report stamped for the sale of the house, and as usual had 3 children tag along with me. They were so well behaved, and I loved this picture of Ethan and Ryley coloring together while we were waiting.

I miss him...

2011-12-09T09:31:00.000-08:00

It has been 66 days since I last got to see and talk to my Dad, and I miss him. We are finding new normals, and of course are keeping busy with Christmas, a move, kids activities and school, work, church and friends, but somehow there is still a huge void. For the past 4 1/2 years my family and I have lived really close to my parents - at times I would have said too close, but they were an active part of my life.

Today I am missing the conversations. I am missing calling my Dad up to get his advice, or input. I miss him talking me through things when I would get upset. I miss him validating my opinions, and then putting me in my place for being hot headed, or too opinionated. I miss him just listening, and I miss listening to him. I miss his constant support and feeling like I really could take on the world. I miss lunch dates, or showing up at his office.

My Dad was GREAT man! I just wish I could call him up and talk.

The Present Game

2011-12-05T19:26:00.000-08:00

In Family Fun Magazine in 2010 they talked about a game called the present game. A game to help your children receive gifts graciously and with more gratitude. I thought that this is the perfect season to try to remind our children of their manners. After doing it tonight, it is clear that we will have to revisit this game a few times a year, but it was fun, the kids enjoyed themselves and it really helped to take the focus off of them as they received their gifts.

I started by wrapping up 3 random objects. I used one sock, an orange peeler and a pencil. Then I sat the kids down and told them that I had a gift for each of them, but they had to say thank you when I gave it to them, and then after they opened it they had to tell me why they loved their gift. For example Skyler loved his orange peeler because it will help him eat oranges easier and he loves oranges.

After they had each opened their gifts they got to 'shop' around the house and find a gift to give to each other and then come and wrap it and we did it all over again with the gifts that they had found for each other.

2 Teeth

2011-12-05T19:22:00.000-08:00

Jordan helped pull out one of Skylers really loose teeth the other night, Skyler went to bed, and the tooth fairy made a visit, then Skyler came running into my bedroom at 4:30 in the morning because his second loose tooth fell out. Much to his dismay the tooth fairy only took one tooth and left money for one, and he had to wait another night before the second tooth was recognized. My baby is growing up too fast!

SNOW

2011-12-05T19:19:00.000-08:00

Sadly we are really busy right now getting ready for a move, so the kids don't get as much fun play time as we normally put in. Ryley and Ethan did take advantage of all of the delicious snow on the ground the other day. Seriously, what is with kids eating snow?

Passing time

2011-12-05T19:13:00.000-08:00

We have had a few showings in the past couple of months, and that meant passing time outside of the house. We have spent more than our fair share of time at the McDonalds playplace, and even made a trip to Cross Iron Mills and saw Santa and played with all of the free activities that they had out for the kids.

Why???

2011-12-05T19:06:00.000-08:00

So we have been busy trying to sell our house since early September (We now have a conditional sale!) that meant that the already OCD momma got a little (ok, maybe a lot) more strict. I have never had a child draw on the wall, furniture, the carpet or anything. Ryley thought that this would be a good time to start. I was busy getting dinner ready, and when I went downstairs I found her masterpiece all over the stairs and the bookshelf. Thankfully they were washable and came off the bookshelf easily. The Carpet Shampooer more or less saved her life.

Movember

2011-12-05T19:02:00.000-08:00

I HATE Movember - not that I hate what it stands for, I hate all of the nasty, and creepy looking Men all over the place who are just growing nasty facial hair. Now that being said, if you were legitimately raising money, then I still hate the nasty stash, but you can have your party...unless you are my husband.

Jordan tried doing Movember, and as you can see it was soo becoming on him, and about 2 1/2 weeks in when he was tired of me avoiding his kisses he shaved. For that I am grateful!

Skyler's got a loose tooth

2011-11-15T11:37:00.000-08:00

Skyler has a couple of loose teeth right now, so I decided to make a Monster tooth pillow that I saw here. I really didn't see trying to get under his pillow without him noticing a very easy reality.

kids Halloween

2011-11-15T11:29:00.000-08:00

So we did make the kids dress up as lego when we were out as a family for Halloween, but for school parties and trick or treating we has a scary vampire, his pet Dragon, and the cutest witch I have ever seen!
The kids were thrilled that I was making them stay still for pictures, if you can't tell. Skyler LOVED trick or treating, and went out for some more even after the other 2 were done, but was happy to pick his treat a day for the month of November when we did up the calenders for them to punch treats out of. We did have to try and scale him down though - he would ring the doorbell, and then 2 seconds later start knocking repeatedly until someone came, and as soon as the door was open he would walk right on in. By the end of the night we had him just knocking, and almost not going into peoples homes. Maybe next year...

Learning to Cook

2011-11-15T11:19:00.000-08:00

My kids have been so helpful lately, and really wanting to be involved in cooking. Jordan is more brave when it comes to the stove than I am, but the kids are doing well. Skyler has started to make breakfast for Ethan and Ryley and will get them, toast, or cereal and milk, and then likes to brag about his amazing sandwich making skills. We have even hear on occasion "Calm down, I can't even eat I am so busy making more sandwiches for everyone. I just can't make them fast enough" A small taste of my life.

Family Costume

2011-10-31T12:25:00.000-07:00

This year for Halloween we were a lego family, sort of. When we were out as a family we were a lego family, but for school parties the kids dressed in something a little more comfortable - I will post those later.

As usual, Jordan gets the credit for the costumes. I came home one night and he excitedly showed me a picture of a lego man, and said this is what I am going to be for Halloween. I responded ok, make 2, and then as Halloween came closer I thought it would be so fun to have the kids be little lego pieces, and thus the family costume was born. I did paint, and paper mache Jordan and I's costume, and I did the kids completely - but all of the fancy work was done by Jordan.

The kids loved each having a color, and Ethan loved his hat, we have had to tell him several times that it is ok for Ryley to wear the red hat.

Family Photos 2011

2011-10-16T10:07:00.001-07:00

We did family photos over the thanksgiving weekend, and my sister in law did it again. There are some fantastic pictures - although I am a little jealous that Jordan and I didn't get pictures done on the steps, the pictures all turned out soo cute! These are just some of my favorites.

Halloween Parcel

2011-10-13T16:20:00.000-07:00

Since Stephen isn't around, and is busy serving his mission. I get to come up with all kinds of fun parcels to send. His birthday was in the mtc, and we used dearelder.com and sent a package to him that way. Unfortunately his birthday was on Labour Day, so his package was a day late. Then I got a box and filled it with all things green to make him feel like a real greeny when he went out to Ogden.

I have a green eggs and ham book that I have been working on, but haven't finished - someday he will get that.

For now we are sending him a Halloween survival kit. My Aunt Sandy and my mom both pitched in to help with this one. I found the idea here and thought is would be a great package to recieve!

Thanksgiving

2011-10-11T20:30:00.000-07:00

This was a hard weekend. Actually it was fine for me until Sunday and Monday, but on those days there was a bunch of random tears.

We hosted dinner this year, and I made a bunch of little turkeys for place settings. I found the idea on pinterest, and I think that they turned out super cute!

I am so grateful for my family, and for the support that we have. I am grateful for my extended family and the strength that I have found through them.

I am grateful that I have a home that allows me to have my family around me. I am grateful for my children and the joy that they bring into my life.

I am grateful for the plan of salvation, and for my knowledge that I can be with my family forever.

I am grateful that we have a day set a side to really think and ponder on the things that make our life full, and our hearts happy.

Daddy's Hands

2011-10-03T20:31:00.000-07:00

I remember Daddy's Hands folded silently in prayer
and reaching out to hold me when I had a nightmare
you could read quite a story in the callouses and lines
years of work and worry had left their mark behind.

I remember Daddy's Hands how they held my mama tight
and patted my back for something done right
There are things that I've forgotten that I loved about that man
but I'll always remember the love in Daddy's Hands.

Daddy's Hands were soft and kind when I was crying
Daddy's hands were hard as Steele when I'd done wrong
Daddy's hands weren't always gentle but I've come to understand
There was always love in Daddy's Hands.

I remember Daddy's hands working till they bled
Sacrifices unselfishly just to keep us all fed.
If I could do things over, I'd live my life again
and never take for granted the love in Daddy's Hands

Daddy's Hands were soft and kind when I was crying
Daddy's Hands were hard as Steele when I'd done wrong
Daddy's hands weren't always gentle but I've come to understand
There was always love in Daddy's Hands.

Daddy's Hands were soft and kind when I was crying
Daddy's Hands were hard as Steele when I'd done wrong
Daddy's hands weren't always gentle but I've come to understand
There was always love in Daddy's Hands.

There was always love in Daddy's Hands.

My Dad asked me to sing this song by Holly Dunn at his funeral, maybe he knew that I would need it to help me cope with the loss later. I often find myself singing this song, and just remembering, just thinking about what a great man my father was. I miss him so much it hurts, but strangely this extremely difficult task of singing this song has helped me, and given me a mechanism to work through the pain.

Arizona together

2011-10-02T08:10:00.000-07:00

At the end of August my Family made a trip to Arizona. This was A trip that my Dad had wanted us to make since he was re diagnosed. This trip was planned and canceled about 3 times, because my Dad had a change in treatment, or my brothers couldn't all make it work. Regardless at the end of August this wish of my Dad's was brought to reality. My whole family - All 4 of my brothers, everyone's significant others, my gang of 5, and my Mom and Dad spent a week at my parents home in Arizona.

We really had a great time. It was HOT, like really HOT, but we had a lot of fun. We went to the aquarium, did some shopping, watched some movies went to an indoor amusement park, and sat in the pool.

Dad couldn't walk far, and he had a lot of pains, but he was with us every step of the way.

When it came time to leave it became really emotional because Stephen was flying to the mtc from AZ. When I drove away with Jordan and the kids it was the last time that I would see Stephen for 2 years until he finished serving. There were a few days before Stephen flew out that it was Mom, Dad, Eric and Stephen - so they took advantage of all being endowed and did a temple session in the Mesa Temple. My Dad left the temple knowing that after he said goodbye at the airport he would not see Stephen again in this life.

What an example of faith. My Dad stood strong and said goodbye to his son knowing it would be a while before they were reunited. Stephen got on the plane and started his mission for the church of Jesus Christ of Latterday Saints knowing that he would come home, and not have his home anymore, and not have my Dad there to welcome him home.

Writing this now, I can also say that Stephen was able to talk to my Dad early in the morning before he passed away - in fact a small miracle. It took over an hour to get ahold of Stephen after my Dad said that he would like me to make the call. Stephen got to talk to my Dad, and shortly after lost the ability to focus and concentrate on anything.

I can also say that Stephen has felt my Dad with him, and although it is a hard struggle to go through he had, and is being well taken care of and the love of the people in Utah has been a huge strength to him. He has also had the blessing of being able to teach the plan of Salvation and have a personal testimony so fresh and strong to add to his teaching.

Ryleys First Haircut

2011-10-02T07:34:00.000-07:00

I have some catching up to do, we have been a little preoccupied the past month. Ryley had her first haircut on the August long weekend. We had been down at my Aunt Sandy's place the weekend before, and Ryely came upstairs with her crazy morning hair, and I got a lecture.
"Muff, your hair never looked that bad. That girl needs a haircut!" Now I also thought that a haircut would have been a good idea, but in my defense her hair was done every day and the crazy mullet was only seen just before bed, and first thin in the morning. Ryley sat great for the haircut and was thrilled to get and icecream afterwards. Unfortunately I can't do as many things with her hair since I lost the length of the mullet, but it does look better.

Dad is laghing

2011-10-02T07:27:00.001-07:00

Last night we went out for dinner as a family to enjoy one of my Dad's favorite foods. We were at a small Vietnamese restaurant, and being a large group we waited a long time for our meal to come. We waited and talked, and my kids behaved quite well. Our meal finally came and we all ate - Ethan even ate, but Ryley refused. She refused to eat, but besides that was well behaved, and acting like herself. As the dishes were being cleared, and we were getting ready to leave Ryley puked all over me. My family all started laughing and cleared out as I was gaging, and trying not to puke myself. My brother and his girlfriend came back in to help Jordan with Ryley and Marly had a huge smile on her face. I told her next time Ryley would be sitting on her lap, and she responded whatever Rob is laughing at you.

How true - my Dad would have found great humor in my discomfort, and without a doubt he was laughing at me last night. Thanks for perspective that will always be an uncomfortable memory that will put a smile on my face.

Dad

2011-09-28T10:02:00.001-07:00

This is the last picture that I have of my Dad. I miss him a lot, but we are finding peace. His health went down hill rapidly after returning for AZ and seeing Stephen off on a mission. He was needing care 24 hours a day, and he hated to see my mom, brothers and I stress over it. None of us begrudge him. We were all happy for the time that we had to spend with him, and happy to do anything that made him more comfortable, or put a smile on his face.

My Dad was my first best friend, and I was his princess - that is something I have always known. I knew that he was proud of me, and I knew how much he loved me. He always encouraged me to reach for the stars, achieve my dreams because I could do all that and more.

My Dad loved to golf, he loved everything about the game, and lived for his next round. Dad would play, rain or shine, and always come off the course happy. His golf game fluctuated a lot over the past 12 years as we went through various stages of fighting cancer, but he always returned, and loved it more each time.

My Dad loved to get together with family and sit for hours talking about whatever there was to talk about, and there was always laughter when he was around. Even in the months before we lost him, he would always make his best effort to get together even though it was very difficult for him to do physically.

I LOVE my Dad, and I know that he wants me to be happy. I know that he is still very much supporting me, and wanting me to do the best that I can, and disappointed when I make a poor choice.

On Sunday September 25th we lost my Dad to Cancer. He fought a courageous battle, and he held on for us. At 3:30 in the morning my Mom was told to gather the kids. She made the phone calls and we all went to the hospital. James had gone to the hospital with my mom, and John and I were able to be there shortly. Eric started the trip up from Lethbridge with a couple of my Mom's sisters, and James girlfriend Marly started her trip down from Edmonton. He was able to speak to Stephen on the phone and and tell him that he was proud of him, and that he loved him, and he held on for every one of us to tell him how much we loved him. He died surrounded by his children, with my Mom holding tightly to his hand at 8:30. The pain is still fresh, and we have shed many tears, but we are surrounded by friends and family that are lifting us up, and helping us to keep going.

Tomorrow is a new day, we will find a new normal and life will go on, but we will always remember, always remember the laughter and love of my Dad.

There will be a funeral service held for him on Friday September 30, 2011 at the parkland chapel 14540 Parkland Blvd SE at 11 am. The family will be there at 10 for anyone wishing to speak to them, and the service will be followed by his internment at Mountain View Cemetery.

Ashley Lake 2011

2011-07-31T18:36:00.000-07:00

We did spend a week at Ashley Lake this year, like we always do, and of course we had a lot of fun. We tried a few new toys this year including the giant bubble, and the lily pad. Skyler got up skiing and was very proud of himself. He also had his first bad dump off of the tube that I thought for sure would end his fearless quest for more waves and Grandpa to go faster, but I was wrong. Although it scared him pretty bad he was back on the tube in about an hour, and asking for Grandpa to give him bumps.

Ethan did the EZ ski and screamed the whole time, everyday that he couldn't do it. He couldn't stand up, as he was standing but I kept making him do it, and he did awesome, even if he screamed the whole time. He surprised us all and and did the bubble because he wanted to, and did not freak out at all!

Ryely was put out that the boys were doing all of the fun things and decided that she was going to do the EZ ski as well, and did great. She also did a bunch of tubing, and found it very relaxing.

Jordan made everything look easy as usual, and we all had so much fun just relaxing and playing for the week. The kids loved the little houses - figuring there is one for each of them now. We LOVE Ashley Lake and are so grateful that we get to spend time there every year!

Magrath Days!

2011-07-31T18:11:00.000-07:00

We made the treck down to Magrath again for the celebrations, and they did not disappoint. For a small town they sure know how to throw a party! This year we made it down in time for the kids carnival, but Jordan had to join us later so I was only able to snag a few pictures because managing 3 kids, and a camera was a little difficult. Skylers favorite thing to do was throw darts at balloons and try to pop them. Ethans was to have rubber duck races, and Ryley's was barrell racing on bouncy balls. Ethan refused to have his face painted but Skyler made up for it with the scariest face he could think of, and miss Ryley sat perfectly still while she had a butterfly painted on her face. Sadly we missed the greased pig chase because I had to make it out to Cardston to meet up with my family to go through the temple. Saturday morning met us with a wonderful parade (which I think they have upped the quality of those floats) Bags full of candy and some very happy children. Ryley got a ride down the street on Grandpa Fox's walker. Ryley was terrified of the loud noises that came along with some of the older vehicles and dirt bikes that were in the parade, but was super proud of herself when she found some candy. This was the first year that Skyler wasn't terrified of the petting zoo, and all of the kids enjoyed holding the baby bunnies. Ethan chose to spend his $2 that Aunt Sandy had given him on feeding the animals - he did it once, and went back to do it again. Everyone took a turn on the giant slide, even Stephen. Ryley loved the Strider bike, which after years of skepticism I have decided that I want one for my kids. We finished the day off with fireworks, and woke up both Skyler and Ethan. Skyler, while groggy at the beginning loved the show. Ethan on the other had slept through the show but insists that they were his favorite and wants to go to the fireworks every night.

I'm Goin there someday

2011-07-31T17:57:00.000-07:00

My baby brother went through the temple for the first time on July 22nd, What a wonderful experience. I had too rearrange it for everyone so that we could make it, since we were getting ready to go on vacation, but I am soo glad that it worked out. We had some wonderful family and ward members that came to support him. My Dad was stubborn and refused to use the elevator, or his walker, and had some swollen feet afterwards, but he was able to be Stephen's escort, and I know that he is so proud.

Milk and Cookies Baby Shower

2011-07-20T22:06:00.000-07:00

A friend of mine asked me to throw her a baby shower when baby number 3 arrived earlier this month. Since I don't know any of her other friends I was on my own for this one. I decided to do a Milk and Cookies theme to keep in simple and pretty. I think that it turned out beautifully, and everyone had a good time, and most importantly baby Jolee and her family were spoiled.

Calaway Park and Summer Fun

2011-07-20T21:54:00.000-07:00

We have had some fun in the Sun this summer. A family trip to Calaway Park had all of the kids laughing. Ryley is a little adrenaline Junky, and loved every ride that she could go on. Skyler thinks some of the rides are too little for him, and is getting impatient for the chance to go on the bigger rides, and Ethan was just happy to follow along and do whatever Skyler was doing. We have also spent some time in the backyard with the pool and waterslide out - the kids LOVE this, and spend all afternoon in it, and then head right back out after dinner.

Swimming Lessons

2011-07-20T21:44:00.000-07:00

We spend a lot of time around water. There is the cabin at Ashley Lake, my Dad has a Jet Ski, and then there is all of the time spent in pools. Jordan and I have decided that swimming is an important life skill, and the kids are going to take lessons twice a year until they make it all the way through. We just finished our round of Summer lessons, and the kids both loved it. Skyler was a solid head shorter than anyone else in his class, so jumping into chest deep water for everyone else left him on his tip toes, but he passed and is very proud of himself.
Ethan was stubborn throughout his lessons, and refused to do half of what he was asked to do (even though he does it all the time on his own) He did not pass, but loved going everyday, and is already talking about the next time. They do say the third time's a charm right?
I love that they enjoy the water so much, and I am proud of both of them for the work they did this summer in their lessons. Ryley is still too young to do lessons on her own, and there were no parented classes that timed up with the boys lessons, so she was pretty ticked that she wasn't allowed in the water, so I did brave taking in all of the kids on our last day of lessons so that she could finally get in the water. She loved it!

Family Birthday BBQ

2011-07-10T20:03:00.000-07:00

Today was Skyler's 6th birthday and we always try to have a little family party for them, the problem is there is never really anything small about a family gathering for us. We are blessed to live very close to all of out immediate family, so this little BBQ was 23 people strong. We are also very blessed that we like them all, and that they all help out to make something like this possible, and fun. I know that Skyler had fun - an impromptu water fight aided by Uncle James led to some very happy, yet very wet children. Thank you to everyone who came and celebrated with us, we love you all tons!

Boys Camping Trip

2011-07-10T19:57:00.000-07:00

Last Year Jordan took Skyler and Ethan on a camping trip - just the boys. It was only for 1 night, but the boys loved it. This year Jordan suggested they go again, I was supportive, but chose not to remind Jordan how frustrated he was coming home last year. Friday Night was the night, and we had 2 super excited little boys, and one daddy with an arsenal of ideas for fun with them. They boys were each a year older, and this year went better than the last. I hope that they continue to spend time together like this, and I envision it getting easier and more fun each year.

In Case You Were Wondering

2011-07-07T11:51:00.000-07:00

I am married to the most thoughtful man on earth! I Love how he is always planing dates and activities that we can do together, and how he picks up on things that I would like, He is super observant. Unfortunately for him, I am a little slow. Last night while I was out having a fabulous conversation with Karey, he changed out one of our pictures at home.

Yup, that used to be a larger picture of the Savior, but now I have a witch.
It only took me until 12:30 today to see it, but I am soo super excited, and super appreciative of how thoughtful, and creative he is!

Randoms

2011-07-05T11:11:00.001-07:00

We are fortunate to have some really great American friends, so we get to celebrate the 4th of July every year with them. The kids are all getting older, so this year there was a bunch of fun for them. Nick had a classic science experiment making bubbles from Dy ice. We had 3 legged races - Does it count as a win if you become untied and are simply the first 2 people across? At one point in the evening Ryley decided that clothes were overrated, and I laughed pretty hard at her trying to strip.
Just before we left all of the kids were given a sparkler, which my kids thought was the greatest thing ever.
I just had to include a picture of our Diva, and this picture just says so much. Ryley loves to swim, and on this particular day we were going later, like a lot later, but she simple refused to wear anything else all day long. Secondly can you see all of the bling? She wears these dress up shoes, sparkly purse and all of its accessories all the time, and it always makes me laugh a little. I certainly do not dress like that.

Today we enjoyed our first bowl of Strawberry's from the gardern. I LOVE having a garden, but I find it hard to have the kids leave the strawberry's on the bush long enough to have anything substantial.

And then to make sure that today was super fun, this little man woke up puking, although he slept for about 3 hours this morning, and now seems to be right back to himself, we will have to see what the rest of today brings.

Canada Day 2011

2011-07-01T21:06:00.000-07:00

I love holidays, and when Jordan get to spend the day playing with us. Today was busy and a lot of fun. We all got done up in our Canada day shirts, and went over to the foothills stake center for some festivities. Our newly elected Mayor even came to say hello. There was mini golf, which clearly Ryley missed the point of. The kids got to fish for some treats. Everyone got maple leaf tattoos, and then we sat down to enjoy some snacks before heading off to Grandma and Grandpa Nielsons for a swim.
We weren't done yet though, Skyler asked if we could have a picnic at the park by our new house - so off we went. The park is not huge, but the kids seem to really like it.
Do you see that huge blue spot on my half naked daughters behind? That is where the real fun was - you see Skyler had just been given a colorful bubble gift when we were at Grandma Nielsons - well let me tell you those colorful bubbles are lethal, and we have the blue seat in the van, blue car seat, blue cloths, and big BLUE puddle outside of our house to prove it. Sadly this is not a toy that they will be playing with again.

Mario Party 6

2011-07-01T20:30:00.000-07:00

Skyler got to celebrate his birthday a few weeks early, so that his friends from school would still be around to celebrate with him. He requested a Mario Party, and it was super fun, and easy to plan. You see Skyler's friend Cody had a Mario Party earlier this year, and his mom did a great job planing out different activities, and then another friend Tyler had a Mario Party, so Cody's Mom gave her stuff to Tylers Mom. Tyler's Mom added a few things, and then it all got passed on to us. I got to add a few things for Skylers Party, but already had some great games planned and prepared thanks to these other wonderful women.

We started off with getting 2 teams established since some of the games required them to work in teams. What better way than Mario and Luigi. I made some easy hats for the kids, and it made it really easy to tell who was on which team. Then we ate some lunch - Pizza of course, Mario is Italian you know.
My parents even came to crash the party and keep Ryley out of the way for a little bit.
Then the kids had cake, and this is truly embarrassing - I was still finishing the cake when the kids were arriving. (due to a schedule change in soccer for Ethan and trying to be everywhere are once) and it is the ugliest cake that I have made since I was about 10. Oh well, the kids loved it, and it was what Skyler asked for.
The first game was fishing for Cheap cheap fish - each fish had a value on them, and the team with the most points at the end won.
Then we played Mario Bingo.
Pin the mustashe on Mario, and another game where they had to chose which cup to look under - some had shy guys, others had Bob-oms, and a few had a candy. The team with the most shy guys won.
One of the games the kids had to try to pop the balloons with their bums - problem was these dollar store balloons were hard for these feather weights to pop!
There was 2 minutes given for the kids to gather as many coins as they could from around the house.
The kids had to make some sweet treats to match mine exactly, and the first team to get it right got a point, first team with three points won.
Jordan made a game like picture this from Mario Party 7, and he would hold up a picture and the kids would have to sort through theirs to find the match and run it up to him. The first team with 3 correct won.
My personal favorite, and I think most of the kids favorites was the Yoshi egg smash. I drained a few dozen eggs, and then filled them with glitter, and a select few with stars in them, and taped off the openings and made them look like Yoshi eggs.
Then the kids got to throw them at the poster and had to run up to see if there was a star. I actually expected to find a hole in my siding by the time this was over, these 6 year olds are getting strong!.
We finished it off with a Boo pinata, and again these boys surprised me with how strong they are.
We had decorated with a few hanging Boos in the house, and the kids thought they we super fun, and I liked how easy and cheap they were.
This is my new favorite way to do treat bags. I stamped the kids names on the bags, and then cut out a picture of some power up mushrooms, and I used craft bags from the dollar store.
Overall Skyler thought it was pretty great, and Ethan loved being a part of the fun with all of Skylers Friends.

It was a fun day, and the smile on my kids faces made it all worth it.

Father's Day 2011

2011-06-19T20:10:00.000-07:00

We had a fun day, despite my limited mobility. Jordan and the boys were supposed to go camping on Friday, but because of the weather forecast postponed it a few weeks. It turned out to be beautiful and they would have had a blast, but to make up for the change in plans he and the boys had a sleepover in the basement. Air mattresses, sleeping bags, movies, and junk food. The boys were in heaven.We made Jordan breakfast in bed (yes, he stayed after both boys were up). Unfortunately we were not so quiet getting it to him thanks to my gibbled hop, and needing Skyler to help carry the juice, and then I couldn't even get close enough to him to give it to him, he had to practically come and get it.
We gave him some tees with a coupon for a round of golf which I thought was so cute - I know it was lost on him, but it made me happy. Found here.After Church today I decided to make Jordan some fresh guacamole and pico for lunch, I was already feeling bad that I couldn't do all that I wanted to do because of my foot, and while trying to get out a bowl I knocked the stack on the floor and broke them all. I hobbled away and started to bawl - way too frustrating for me not to be able to do everything on my own!

I think that my kids are pretty lucky to have such an awesome Dad, and I know I am lucky to have him as my partner as we try to raise our children.

We went to my parents for dinner, and my in-laws for dessert so that we could spend some time with both of our Dads. I made them each a super hero kit found here I know, at least for my Dad that the treats inside mean very little, but this was my way of telling him just how important he is to me. Every time an important decision needs to be made in my life I always check to see what my Dad thinks before I make my decision. I have been soo blessed to be raised in the family that I was, and to have him as a role model. My children have all been blessed to live close and have a great relationship with him, and they too have benefited from his wisdom and love. He is a true Super Hero in my eyes.

Unfortunately I forgot to pull out my camera when we got to my inlaws, but my Father in Law is another father in our lives who deserves a day of recognition. He is a wonderful support, and is always there when we need him. I am grateful for the example that he has been, and for the way that he raised Jordan.

My heart is filled with Joy as I take the time to consider these wonderful men, and the many sacrifices that they have made, and will continue to make for their families. We are soo blessed.

severe sprain

2011-06-17T09:53:00.000-07:00

Life is crazy busy right now, between the end of the school year, The little boy that I now take care of everyday, and all of the appointments for the new house we are building. Life is just busy, and I am very much looking forward to July. Last night I was trying to get the kids out the door, so that I could drop them off at a friends house, and then run off to the builder for a meeting. Skyler and Ethan were at the door with boots and coats on, and I ran upstairs to grab Adrian and Ryley. I fell on the first step, thought I was going to die from the pain, and now I am on crutches and struggling to do basic things around my house. Thankfully it is just a sprain, and not a break but for the next few days I won't be getting too far too fast.

Skyler keeps saying that he feels bad for me, and he and Ethan have been a huge help, doing all kinds of tasks and just making sure that I am taken care of. I really am blessed to have 2 wonderful little nurturer's around all the time.

Playschool Graduate!

2011-06-14T10:51:00.000-07:00

Today we held a little graduation for Ethan and his friends who were part of playschool this year. I am sad that I don't have better pictures, but I was running the show and was at the mercy of others. I made little marshmallow graduation pops, graduation hats, and certificates for each of the kids. After they had all gotten their hats and certificates we had them sing their ABC's since that was our theme for the year, the got to enjoy some yummy snacks and then played at the park. We were blessed with some beautiful weather this morning.

In September Ethan leaves me for preschool.

mixed emotions

2011-06-14T08:16:00.000-07:00

Yesterday I got to take Skyler out to his new school for grade one orientation. As I walked away leaving my little man I started to cry - and still have not completely finished. My baby is growing up. Starting next year he will be gone from me all day 5 days a week, and I am truly sad about that. I am excited that he got into this school, and yes I am happy that my day will not be broken up, but we are talking 8-4 without seeing him.

He is soo excited about his independence and promised me yesterday that he would give me a big hug and kiss everyday before and after school. I want so bad to just be happy for him, but it makes me sad, and it hurts a little inside.

Ethan's 4!

2011-06-06T10:05:00.000-07:00

On Saturday we had a birthday party at our house Spiderman style. I find it hard to come up with themes, gifts or anything really for Ethan because all he wants is what Skyler has, wants, or is doing, and then we already have a ton of toys that have accumulated with the 2 boys. We have another party coming up in a few weeks, and it took a while before Ethan decided that he was happy and excited about a Spiderman party, but as the day came closer, and I worked on different things, the excitement became almost uncontrollable, and I loved it!As all of the little kids arrived they got to work on their spiderman canvass masterpieces.even Miss Ryley wanted in on all of the fun.We had some snacks, and spiderman cake, Smashed a spiderman pinata, and played some games.

I think the kids favorite was the web walk, which we played like musical chairs, only I used glittery webs that I had made.They also had a balloon toss game, and wouldn't it be just out luck, and robber came and tried to steal the cake - luckily I had a bunch of armed little superheroes to stop him, and then Jordan had to call the police when he tried to steal the car.
It was soo fun, and I loved hearing the little cries of 'this is awesome' from all of our little guests.
I had fun finding everything spiderman at the dollar store, and there was a ton which made decorating easy. We wrapped everything in Spider man too - I just couldn't resist. The gift bags were fun and easy. I just stamped the kids name on the outside so that we could make sure that they got the right bag on the way out the door, and glued on a spiderman decal.Then they were filled with a few things spiderman - most of which they accumulated throughout the party.Sunday was Ethan's real birthday, so we had all of the family over to have a BBQ and celebrate him. It was fun and simple. The kids had soo much fun playing outside (we actually had a beautiful sunny day for it)
I made a candy cake for something a little different found here. It was soo easy to make, and I LOVED how it turned out!

We had a Wedding in our family!

2011-05-25T14:44:00.000-07:00

My little brother John married his beautiful fiance on the long weekend, and although family can be hard, and there is a lot to set up, take down and remember - the wedding was beautiful, and the reception was fun, and they had a party that was all about them! Even knowing all this, I must put it out there that they had the prettiest little flower girl, and most dashing little ring bearers, even if Ethan was in the middle of a fit as he walked down the aisle.Ryley did pretty good with her flower petals, but may have enjoyed putting them back into the basket as much as she enjoyed taking them out.John was perfectly fidgety and nervous as the morning went on, and Amanda was late for her own wedding. Amanda was brilliantly beautiful, and radiantly happy as she pulled up late for said wedding.

The ceremony was held on the beach, and those in attendance got a little sun, which is actually nice since it was raining by the time the reception started.
Jordan put together a slide show in the hour between the ceremony and reception sitting in the van, on his laptop, and it was beautiful, and fun to see pictures of both of them growing up. It will be fun to see the pictures that are still to come as they build their lives together.The cupcakes were good - Ethan told me so.
My Dad was there, and held up quite well, at least until after the reception. He golfed at his favorite course on Friday, and I made Jordan babysit. It was interesting to hear Jordan say that he thinks my Dad should start golfing 9 holes since my Jordan beat my Dad on the first 9, but by the end of 18 Jordan still lost. Had they just played 9 Jordan would have won! Not to worry, I mentioned the idea of just playing 9 holes to my Dad, and he quickly refuted it saying that playing 9 holes is like kissing your sister.

Weddings are fun, but I am ok if there is a break before we have to do it all over again.

Mother's Day 2011

2011-05-16T12:32:00.000-07:00

I love watching my kids grow up. Skyler 'gets' a lot more things now. He and Jordan devised a secret plan to clean the house for me while I was sleeping - to which I totally ruined by going to a baby shower for a dear friend, so Skyler made me promise that I would punish daddy if i caught him cleaning. Not the kind of promise that I like to make, but I was ok with it this time.

My boys cleaned my house! Skyler swept and mopped, and Ethan vacuumed - of course Jordan supervised ;)

I was brought some strawberry's in bed, and everyone was super well behaved. We went to my beautiful Mom's where my brother and his girlfriend had made a delicious brunch for us. We were able to enjoy some time with my mom before we went off to church, and ended our wonderful day at my in-laws for dinner.

Sometimes it is the simple things, or the excitement or serious tone of a child that make the gift. I was touched by how serious Skyler took the cleaning of the house for me - even though I know a huge part of that was because he would get to stay up late.

Enjoying the Sunshine

2011-05-16T12:23:00.000-07:00

We are soo happy in our house that we have finally seen some warmer weather and sunshine. We have taken full advantage of this as well. The Summer toys have resurfaces in the back yard, regular trips to the park, and plenty of walking and biking has been going on around our house.

I Can Do Better

2011-04-28T15:04:00.001-07:00

I feel horrible today. I got a phone call from a friend, not a super close friend, but that is totally irrelevant. I was trying to sneak in a nap while my boys were being quiet downstairs and Ryley napped. I CHOSE to ignore the phone, only to hear her tear filled voice on the answering machine telling me that her sweet baby boy had his leg stuck in the crib, and she was afraid that she had broken it trying to get him out.

I was ignoring her! She needed someone to comfort her and help her. We are here to be instruments in helping those around us, and we don't always get a phone call - sometimes we are actually expected to be good people and listen to the promptings we are feeling.

She got a big hug (after I called her back, and woke up my baby and got everyone into the van to go to her house) and her sweet baby boy's leg came out of the crib no problem, and no it is not broken - he was being extra dramatic to make her feel good.

It was so easy, it took me 5 minutes - yet I was too tired to just help. I will Never forget how guilty and horrible I feel, and I will Never make this selfish mistake again!

I can do better, I will do better, and I challenge everyone else to do a little better.

Easter Weekend

2011-04-24T19:30:00.001-07:00

We were supposed to be away on a family vacation this weekend with my family. First it was Arizona, then it was Montana, and because of my Dad's health we ended with staying home. We had made some plans of things that we would do with the kids, so we were sure to include all of those. Friday Morning we got to go swimming at Grandma and Grandpa Nielsons - then we had to litterally pull my kids away so that we could go to Grandma and Grandpa Darkers for some burgers. My grandma and grandpa Fox, and my Aunt Sandy and Uncle Kim came up for the day. It was fun to see them.

My cousin Meghan also came into town and stopped by to see my Dad. After lunch we took the kids to see the movie Hop - by far the favorite is a bunny that poops jelly beans.

Saturday was Ethan's first day of soccer, and he is pretty good when he is not whining and crying. We made Easter dinner and hosted it at our house so that my Mom and Dad wouldn't have anything to stress about. We have a small house, but we made everyone fit. We died Easter eggs, decorated sugar cookies and played some games with my family. It was a divine day!

This morning started out great! The kids slept until almost 8, found their Easter loot, ate waffles, and then I got everyone ready for church in their fancy new Easter clothes. I curled Ryley's hair and loved it - She is gonna be so used to me messing around with her hair, I just can't wait until I have more of it to play with.

We walked to church because it was a beautiful Day, then came home and got our bikes so that we could ride over to Grandma Nielson's for Easter dinner, and the Easter Egg hunt. Ryley unfortunately got a head start of the egg hunt, and we had a bit of a chocolaty mess on our hands. We went on a walk down to the river and then got to ride our bikes back home.

What a perfect weekend. I Love family time, and I Love it when Jordan has some time off work!

lunch anyone?

2011-04-16T17:35:00.000-07:00

We have another General Authority who is going to be speaking to the missionary's on Monday. This time I was asked to make 55 bag lunches for them to take on their way back down to southern Alberta. That is a LOT of sandwiches.

New Boots!

2011-04-14T18:42:00.001-07:00

My kids have small feet, they probably got it from me, but regardless I have a really hard time finding them shoes when they are toddlers. Ryley L O V E S to splash in all of those muddy puddles, but I wasn't able to find any boot small enough to fit her. My wonderful neighbor had her mom look while she was in the states, and she mailed up some beautiful, sparkly purple boots that match her spring coat perfectly! This girl has a thing for shoes, and these are surely her new favorite!

We're makin memories!

2011-04-08T17:08:00.001-07:00

My parents have both made mention in recent months how they have not been on a date - like a real date in a long time, in fact neither of them could remember the last time they went out. That got the wheels turning, and we decided that we could help them make some happy memories as well.

We rented them a fancy little car - this must be a guy thing because that was Stephen's idea, and it is something that Jordan always thinks about as well. Made them a reservation at the Ranche and sent them on their way with the bill taken care of.

I love my parents more than I can ever say, and I would do anything for them. Although this was planned a while ago, it was good timing. My parents were supposed to leave tomorrow to make their way down to Arizona, and that has been canceled for the second time. The Chemo is not working, so we are onto plan B which changes his treatment times.

We earned some popcorn around here

2011-04-08T17:04:00.000-07:00

Skyler has been hard at working memorizing all of his popcorn words, and today he was able to go all the way through them without any help. He may not look super happy here, but he was bouncing off the walls, and had a very hard time picking out his popcorn. He finally decided on Dill.

We reached $500, and as promised...

2011-03-23T11:52:00.000-07:00

We shaved Jordan's head, and my older brother Eric shaved his as well. I do think that he is hotter with hair, but I am overcome with gratitude for everyone who donated to the Canadian Cancer Society, and helped us reach our goal, and for my husband who is such a strength and support to me. He is truly a wise person!
My younger brother still has a head of hair, and if we can reach the goal of $1000, $475 left to go, then he too will join the ranks of the other men in my family and become bald in support of my Dad and Cancer research.

A Reason to Celebrate!

2011-03-18T19:50:00.000-07:00

My baby brother got his mission call today, so we had a reason to celebrate! A few days ago I called my Dad to see what he thought about making tonight a real party, and it didn't take much convincing. Stephen is going to serve in the Ogden Utah Mission and reports on August 24th. I think the long wait to report for your mission must be kind of like a long wait for your wedding, There is soo much going on in life, but Stephen is a great kid, and we are all grateful that he will be around for a little while longer, and soo proud of him for the decisions that he is making in his life.

We decided that we would eat food from wherever he is going to be serving, so if he was going to China we would order chinese, Mexico we would make some taco's, and since he is going to the states we decided to eat some delicious American burgers! (Seriously 5 guys is soo busy)
After we enjoyed dinner we came back to my parents house to break open the pinata that I made, it was covered in flags from all around the world, but since I was in such a rush to get it done, it was still a little moist, and it made for a rather difficult pinata to break, but everyone had some fun.
My parents supplied some ice cream cake that said "Return With Honor Elder Darker" that we all happily ate.

I am so grateful for family, and so glad that we could have some fun tonight, my boys were looking forward to it all day. Just so you all know, we have the coolest family in the world!

St. Patty's Day

2011-03-18T06:17:00.000-07:00

Another fun day in our house. It all started the day before when my little boys spent over an hour masterfully creating our leprechaun trap. They were certain to add all things green, build a few heart shamrocks, and sparkles, oh the glitter! We set the trap out before bed, but the sneaky little leprechaun managed to steal the bait, and get away, the boys were happy though to find that he left behind a few golden treats, they must have fallen out of his pot of gold.
For breakfast my little people were thrilled to have some sugar infused Lucky Charms, in fact the excitement was almost too much to bear. I was able to volunteer in Skyler's classroom this year and that sneaky little leprechaun played a trick on his kindergarten class and hid all of their shoes! It was fun to hear the joy in so many little voices as they sought out their shoes, and excitedly told of what tricks the leprechaun played on them.

We played some Lucky bingo to pass some time in the afternoon, and ended our evening with a traditional Irish dinner (lamb shank stew and soda biscuits) some green punch, and of course some pistachio bread - a yummy green treat for our special day.

We all wore our silly green hats at dinner time, and tried to get a picture of our family, but Ethan kind of stood right in front of miss Ryley, but believe me, she was CUTE!

Bubye Hair

2011-03-16T19:23:00.000-07:00

My dad used to have thick dark curly hair, then he got sick. When he was sick last time he lost it, and when it grew back it was coarser and straight. Well this time it is gone again. For the last 3 days it has been falling out, and this morning the shower started to fill with water, which was fixed by removing 2 handfuls of hair from the drain. My Dad decided that he was ready to lose it, and save on the next plumbing bill.

While I am certain that my Dad looks hot like this, I would love to see my husband bald, and he will do it if we are able to raise $500 for Cancer research, so if any of you would also like to see Jordan bald, let me know what you are able to donate, and we can work towards the goal!

Spring!!!

2011-03-15T13:24:00.000-07:00

ok, so I am certain that we are not done with the snow in Calgary, but I am DONE with winter! For some reason this winter has seemed particularly long, and harsh, maybe that is because last summer sucked! (all of the rain, or hail that killed my plants) or maybe it is because we have been unseasonable cold this winter so that we didn't spend as much time enjoying the snow - whatever the reason, I am glad that I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. On Saturday we bought some yummy veggies to plant in the garden, and I am soo super excited about planting asparagus! It is a perennial, and if I care for it properly will hopefully thrive in my little garden. Yesterday I decided that we would BBQ for dinner, and it was such a welcome change. All of the kids had fun in the warm weather, and insisted on playing outside while dinner was being cooked, and took up my favorite seat on the stairs and took in my beautiful family on this warm(er than average) March day and made sure that I had pictures to help recall these wonderful memories for years to come.

Mardi Gras

2011-03-08T17:23:00.000-08:00

What a Day! My dad was in the hospital again, for kidney stones this time (which has actually been on and off for about 3 weeks) and my mom called first thing this morning to see if I could go and sit at the hospital to keep my dad company and keep my mom informed of any changes. I was still deciding if I thought that Skyler was well enough to go to school, and started making arrangements for my kids. After getting Skyler to school Ethan started playing with the playdough which was all dried up and crusty, so I decided to make some fresh playdough for them. This was received well, and I thought it would be a perfect time to grab a shower... unfortunately I got out to the sound of breaking glass and to find Ryley standing in the middle of the table, covered with playdough!

I cleaned up and then went off to dadsit at the hospital, and was even able to bring him home this afternoon. I made it home in time for some celebrations. You see last year I realized that there was a celebration that I had been missing - Mardi Gras! I will be happy to lent away a few pounds, but I was in for the fun. We spent some time decorating our masks, enjoyed some yummy Jambalaya, marched around to make our own parade, and then enjoyed a kings cake for dessert (traditional celebration cake). I must say they know what they are doing, so we will have to repeat this in the future.

Family Sick Day

2011-03-07T17:46:00.000-08:00

Ryley got sick on Friday, and has decided to share with the whole family. Today was a family sick day. Jordan worked from home, Skyler stayed home from school, and all of us had runny noses, sore throats and a cough. How best to end a sick day? Ethan chose to snuggle down in mom and dad's bed and watch cartoons, but the rest of us? We had a dance party in the boys bedroom.

Ethan

2011-02-24T08:55:00.000-08:00

I was going to go to aerobics this morning - it has been a while coming. I was going to go with my sister in law, but then I couldn't make, then she couldn't, then I couldn't, the I couldn't (you get the point). Today I decided that I was just going to go, so I packed up the kids, and off we went. When we got there there was nobody there, so I called my sister in law to find out that it was canceled this week. Great, just my luck! A little disappointing the kids and I head home and I hear Ethan in the back seat "don't worry mommy I have a workout in my purse, and I will share with you" I thought that was funny, but his commentary kept going, eventually he decided that he was going to be the daddy, and he was a good daddy, and his name was going to be "Awe Jordan" haha, I wonder what is going on in this kids head!

Optimistic

2011-02-22T12:17:00.000-08:00

Today we found out that my dad does in fact have CLL again, but the doctors are optimistic - they say that there have been a number of new treatments that have shown to be quite effective, and we will give them a fighting shot. On Thursday my dad will meet with his Oncologist and we will find out what plan of action we will be taking.

I am really trying to be optimistic, and to look at the blessings that we do have. We are going to make the most of the time that we have together, and make memories that will last a life time.

I am grateful that my family is all close together right now, I am grateful that Jordan found work in Calgary and this is where our home is right now. I am grateful for my childrens happy natures and that they are so resilient and optimistic.

We are busy planning my brothers wedding that will take place the middle of May, and my baby brother has put his mission papers in and will soon find out where he will be serving for the next 2 years. I think that a good family vacation needs to be in there somewhere too, but we will see how things play out.

Sometimes it just hurts!

2011-02-17T07:54:00.000-08:00

I was looking for a picture of my dad, and I just don't have nearly enough! When I was in highschool my dad was diagnosed with CLL (chronic lymphosytic Leukemia) he went through a few rounds of chemo, and we were all happy when it went into remission and life seemed to go on as before. After my second year of University I felt unsettled about going back to Lethbridge and decided that I would work on my studies by correspondence so that I could still be at home. I started working, and continued my schooling; within 2 months my dad was told that he would need to have a bone marrow transplant, it was his only chance at survival. He spent most of the year in the hospital, I took on doing my best to help with the mortgage, grocery's Christmas, taking care of my 3 younger siblings (2 of which were still in junior high) and making regular trips to the hospital to see my dad. Jordan came home from his mission, and shortly we were engaged. We decided to have a quick wedding because I wanted my dad to be there. My Dad was released from the hospital the day before we were married, then he got to see me bring 3 beautiful children home. It has been almost 7 years, and we have watched my dad get his life back, and gain strength. 2 weeks ago my dad was starting to feel unwell, and was finding that he was winded easily. These last 2 weeks have been a roller coaster that has taken us to the phone call that I received last night from my dad. He has cancer again, and we are back to battle grounds. My dreams have been tormented for the past 7 years, my heart has been full, as we experienced birthday and holidays together as a family and now I just hurt! I don't want to fight this fight again, I am mad that I waited soo long to take my dad on that one on one date that I have been thinking about. I am scared that I am not strong enough, have enough time, or that I won't be able to juggle my schedule as well as I would like.

My dad is ready to fight, and so am I, but sometimes it just hurts!

Happy Love Day!

2011-02-15T11:21:00.000-08:00

We had a great day in our home. I had set out a special valentines treat for my kids to find in the morning, but I swear they are the most unobservant little people ever. Last year I had helium balloon right outside their door, they walked around them, and had to be redirected before they even noticed them. this year I had treats right at the top of the stairs - they stepped on them and kept going, and had to be called back up to find them.

Skyler asked if we were having a special breakfast, we have only been home for a day, so my umm of course response lead to heart shaped pancakes, we even had a special request for a ruffly heart.While Skyler was at school getting a ridiculous amount of treats, Ethan Ryley and I went grocery shopping so that we would have some more food choices (the fridge was pretty sparse)

When Skyler was done school we had some spaghetti for lunch with heart shaped Jello Jigglers.After I finished reclaiming my house from our vacation and what we had of the weekend we decorated some sugar cookies, read some super cute books (Crocodiles need kisses too, and Hugless Dougless) We ate a nice healthy snack of cupid heart (watermelon and oranges) and some strawberry's.

Jordan had planned a secret dinner for me, so we fed the kids and got them ready for bed, then I was banished to the upstairs until he came to get me. Let me tell you it was soo worth the wait. Jordan made me some garlic shrimp, Lobster Therm-adore and zucchini. He plated everything nice using parsley as an accent, had the candles lit, and martinelli's cooled and waiting.I truly felt so blessed yesterday playing with my kids and enjoying Valentines day with them, and then having my wonderful husband go to so much trouble for me. Life is good!

MEXICO!!!

2011-02-12T18:26:00.000-08:00

We made it home from our vacation and everyone crawled into bed at 1:30 this morning. Our trip to Mexico was much anticipated in our home, both for a break in our long winter, and because it was with Grandma and Grandpa Nielson. I planned well in advance different things that I could pack in the boys backpacks that they could be responsible for, and that would help keep them busy during the travel. Miss Ryley got a purse to be in charge of which she loved, and then as with everything lost interest in - oh well.

Our flight down left at 6:30 in the morning meaning that we had to be at the airport at 4:30, and we were! The problem is that we stood in the check in line for over 1 1/2 hours - I am not talking about security, or even customs, I am talking about the check in to get our boarding passes. By the time the lady figured out what she was doing there were no seats left, and there were 7 of us to check in. We finally got rushed through customs, and then at security we had a lady on a power trip and we stood in line for full searches and pat downs (even though our boarding passes were not tagged) even Miss Ryley was thoroughly patted down. We made it to the plane, Jordan handed me the boarding passes so that we could find our seats and I started bawling, yes the ugly cry right on the plane. They had Ethan and Skyler each sitting by themselves one in the middle, and one at the very back of the plane. Other passengers were very kind and changed seats so that at least Jordan and I could each sit next to the kids, not all together, but the boys were not alone. We landed 1/2 hour early and then sat on the tarmac for an hour for a gate to open up. Connecting flight in Pheonix, we still did not have boarding passes for, and again they were having problems with our tickets. Again we were not all together, but at least they were sensitive enough to make sure the kids each had an adult with them. We boarded the plane, taxied out, turned around and went back to the gate there was a mechanical problem, and they were going to look for another plane. Thankfully they fixed the problem and we were only delayed about 45 minutes. Finally we were in the air and on our way to Mexico, and we landed and got our luggage - but wait the excitement is not over. Rick and Ann had to gate check their carry on luggage because there was not enough room for them, and when we picked them up in Mexico someone was kind enough to steal Ricks wallet and i-phone.

The resort was wonderful, our room was perfect and the kids were really glad to be done with traveling. Our week was wonderful, although it wasn't quite as warm as we had hoped. It always warmed up in the afternoon, but the mornings, and evenings were quite cool. Skyler and Ethan both tried the big water slide. We got Ethan to do it twice. Skylers favorite part was playing in the wave pool. He figured out how to ride the waves in a tube and was really quite proud of himself.Ethan like to carry the tubs around and had a few good days with them as well.

Jordan and Rick went on a Canopy tour to do all of the zip lines. They both really wanted to go, and I was afraid that I would get physically ill at the heights before I could enjoy the thrill of the ride. I was really happy that they could go and do it together as father and son, and that they both got a chance to do it since Ann and I were both refusing to go.

We went downtown Puerto Vallarta one day to the markets and Skyler and Ethan each scored a whistle and Ryley got 2 bracelets. We walked along the beach side and saw some pretty amazing sand sculptures and this one guy who stood there completely covered in sand. Ryley got pretty upset when I had no more money for her to put in the box.

We ate dinner at Chiles while we were in town, and there was a kids play structure in the restaurant. The kids had so much fun playing while we waited for our food.

All 3 of the kids loved the lazy river, especially when the waves were on. We made sure to do a couple of rides each day.Skyler was going all by himself after the first day, and again so proud of how big he was.

Lots of time was spent at the kids pool where there are water slides, shallow water and lots of spray things.Ryley had fun being independent and refused to let anyone help her do anything, she was all or nothing. Completely on her own, or she was being carried.We went to church on Sunday and it was kind of funny that even though we had an address the taxi drivers did not know how to find it.
It was a nice building surrounded by a gate, and there were ruins across the street.

Lots of walks around the beautiful resort, and we were always sure to see an iguana sitting at the falls. There were tons of beautiful flowers and sweet moments where my kids got along.We went on a nice walk along the beach on Sunday and saw a baby sea turtle trying to get out to sea. There was a sand crab, and a star fish missing an appendage. Skyler was gathering all kinds of sea shells, and we all got our feet wet. a few days later we went down just to play. Skyler and Grandpa built a masterfull sandcastle while Jordan frantically built decoy sand castles for our destructive baby to focus her attention on.It would not have been a complete trip to the beach if someone didn't give the sand a taste.!Then my camera died and I was super upset. This is my new camera from Christmas and my old camera I only had to charge a couple of time a year, and this one I charged a month ago, and sadly I did not have my charger with me. I missed some great picture of animals, and my kids. One that I really wish I could have gotten was Skyler pushing Ann around in the tube. apparently he dumped her a few times in the waves, and she still likes him, and he LOVED it!

Jordan and I went to Rhythms of the Night, which was super fun. We took a boat to Los Calitas, a secluded beach where we got to watch an interpretive show on Mexican history and traditions. We had a candle lit dinner on the beach and then another boat trip home. I am super grateful for the time that I got to spend with just Jordan, and my in-laws made that possible and encouraged Jordan and I to take a break.

The trip home was far less eventful, although the connection was a bit of a joke again. I am happy to be sleeping in my own bed, and beyond thrilled with the memories that we made, and the time that we got to spend together as a family without all of the chaos of everyday.

Sunday Breakfast

2011-01-30T19:13:00.000-08:00

Sundays are hard with little kids, trying to get everyone ready for church, making sure that their clothes stay clean long enough to get to church, trying to get them to stay quiet at church, and of course the doozy for us - missing naps for church.

We have chosen to look on the bright side. I am having a lot of fun in my new calling as Nursery leader, not going to lie it is a daunting thought when the vast numbers of children that I will get to play with are put in front of me, but we have made it structured, and I am soo happy to say that nursery is a happy place for me, and the children.

Also, my family is totally loving having full breakfasts on Sunday, something that we forgo most days for some toast or cereal. In the last month we have had breakfast pullaparts, eggs
benedict, and crepes to name a few, and I am certain that my children are loving it!

these were the best pictures I could get this morning - I tried!

Camera Case

2011-01-25T08:27:00.000-08:00

Skyler and Ethan were given a camera for Christmas so that they could take their own pictures on our vacation, and I got a new point and shoot camera as well (it's pink, I LOVE it!) I thought it best to make cases for them since mine is typically at the bottom of my purse, or the diaper bag, and the boys, well, they are 3 and 5 years old and although they love the camera they sure do find some interesting places to store it. I am thrilled with how these turned out, I lined them with flannel, so they are nice and soft on the inside, and I do think it was worth the scraps of fabric, and 1/2 hour of my time!

I don't want to Jinx it...

2011-01-12T16:53:00.000-08:00

But Ethan ate all of his dinner again, and I may have bribed him by saying that I would put his picture on the computer again - what can I say he loves seeing himself on my blog. Tonight was zuchini, and spinach filled ravioli, and the past even had the sauce on.

Sick boy

2011-01-12T16:03:00.000-08:00

We were up a lot last night. Skyler was puking, and when we finally got up this morning the only thing that he wanted was some gingerale and Stephen to come and watch a movie with him. We are soo blessed that Stephen makes my children a priority and that he would take the time to come and grant my sick child his only wish.

He ate dinner!!!

2011-01-11T18:18:00.000-08:00

Do you see the cauliflower on that fork? The empty plate in front of him? He ate his dinner, all of it. Rice, carrots, roast chicken, and cauliflower - all of it. Ethan ate his dinner!!!

These Boots are Made for Walking...

2011-01-10T14:02:00.000-08:00

These little cowboy boots were are Children's Place around Stampede time, and I loved them, and thought they would be fun for Ryley, but the $26 price tag turned me off. I have a very limited budget for clothing for my family. Well, I watched them for probably 3 months, but the price came down to something in my budget, and I picked her up a pair of black and pink ones for $3. It was a worthwhile purchase as well because she LOVES them. She even ended up wearing them to church the other day, a real Taylor Swift look, but I didn't have it in me to fight with her over it. She may only be 16 months old, but she knows what she wants!

Fondue on New Years

2011-01-10T13:55:00.000-08:00

I know that New Years isn't really a kids holiday, but I love finding something fun to do with them. For the last couple of years we have done a Chocolate fondue with the kids before they go to bed, and then we go out, or have people over. The kids think it is such a treat, and I do love those chocolaty little faces!

Wise Men

2011-01-10T13:47:00.000-08:00

Growing up the New Years baby visited out home on New Years Day, it was just another excuse for some candy and a little gift, but I loved it. We have carried on the tradition, with a minor twist in our family. New Years Day is when the Wise Men came you see, and the still like to make my children smile. We don't do anything big or extravagant, normally it is just something to compliment a Christmas gift, but it is a tradition that I love, and I truly find so much joy when I see my kids faces filled with excitement!

Upcoming Trip

2011-01-10T13:42:00.000-08:00

My in-laws are taking us to Mexico in February and we are really excited! Last time we were there, Ethan was 8 months old, and Skyler was 2 1/2. Now we have 3, and they are all a little older, understand more and I am really excited to see them enjoying themselves in the water all day. Skyler has been asking daily how many more days until we leave, so he now has his very own countdown to Mexico - I think it is super funny because when I made it for him, there was still 35 days until we leave!

Christmas!

2010-12-29T19:42:00.000-08:00

The much anticipated Christmas eve finally arrived. We spent the morning at my mom's work for a Christmas Party - odd day to have it I know, but it worked out perfect! Santa was really good to them, and all of the kids had a blast. We then spent the evening with my family which was a little sparse this year. In fact, it is the only year (besides Eric's Mission) that all of my siblings were not there, and we were down by 2. Skyler was about bouncing out of his skin with excitement, and I think Ethan was getting a little sad that in the gifts that Santa had given him so far (at the various Christmas Parties) none of them had been his beloved Nintendo ds that he so desperately wanted. He had no interest in opening presents, then the ds was opened and he still had no interest in opening presents and was just sad that he couldn't be playing with it now. It really was sad because when he woke up on boxing day he came downstairs and told me that he was ready to open his presents. Ryley had fun carrying presents around, but not a ton of interest in opening them, although she was thrilled with a baby and stroller that she was given. We did all of our gift exchanges with my family on Christmas Eve since we would be spending Christmas Day with Jordan's family. * My mom had a hard time when Christmas dinner came around and there was only 2 0f her 5 children there - she describes it as quiet.

Christmas morning we opened out stockings as soon as we woke up, and Skyler lined all of it's contents in a row. The kids got their Santa gift which Jordan built - I LOVE IT! The kids have already put it to good use as well. We went over to my inlaws and opened the remainder of our gifts, we went tobogganing, had Christmas dinner, and just really enjoyed time with family!

Gingerbread Houses

2010-12-29T19:34:00.000-08:00

Jordan was gone for a week this month for work. I always hate it when he is gone. I don't sleep - I know it is totally in my head, but I check the doors a million times, I check the alarm a million times, and then I wake up randomly because I heard something. Then there is of course the horrible hours of 4-6pm, when my children chose to fight and scream, and I am trying to get dinner done, and if possible, the worst of all is after the kids are all in bed, and I am left to sit by myself. I do know that some people deal with this all of the time, and I feel for them, I really do - I have not had to get used to this thankfully Jordan does not travel often, but when he does - I DON"T LIKE IT. Anyways, Jocelyn and Jeff invited the kids and I over to make gingerbread houses, and it was soo nice to have someone to talk to in the evening, and have something for the kids to look forward to. I must say, we did make a pretty nice gingerbread house, but it didn't fare well on the drive home ;(Ryley was with us, but I chose not to document her quietly sitting on a chair eating a bag full of candy that I didn't think was open!

Hairstyles from The Grinch

2010-12-29T19:30:00.000-08:00

so, this is how Ryley woke up from her nap - I kind of think that she looks like the Mayer in the Jim Carey version of How the Grinch Stole Christmas.

Ethan!

2010-12-29T19:25:00.000-08:00

This boy is soo loved, and always make certain that you know that He loves You, but he is also the one who has tried my ability to parent with love more than either of my other 2. He is now 3 1/2 years old, and doesn't eat. If you read back, you can find some of the drastic measures that were taken, but for now I am done fighting with him. He did go about a week this month where he was not able to stay awake through sitting at the table watching the rest of us eat dinner, and watching his food get cold before it is cleared away. It was soo funny to watch his little head bob night after night. Alas things have changed, and he is back to staying awake, and whining through dinner.

What a fun month!

2010-12-29T19:09:00.000-08:00

So, I haven't posted in a month, and have a lot to catch up on, especially since it was December - a month filled with Christmas activities, fun, and lots of laughter. I pulled out all of the decorations, and the family grabbed up the Santa hats, which made frequent appearances throughout the month.

The first saturday we made the trip out to find the prefect tree, and we were super happy to be joined by Jordan's sister Jocelyn, and her family. Alise slept through it all, and Holli was a trooper for most of it.

Skyler had to do a 3-5 minute presentation at school about a tradition, and this is the one we chose, so we have lots of pictures because we had to document it and make a big poster to help him with his presentation. (which he did fantastic - I went in to help him, if he needed it, but he just kept on talking)

Skyler really loved it. Ethan had a good time, but made me drag him through the snow, and Ryley could not understand why every time we put her down she was up to her waist in snow.

Our trees always remind me of a Charlie Brown Christmas, but they make me smile all month long!

The Weather Broke

2010-11-27T19:56:00.000-08:00

The weather finally broke on Thursday after unseasonably cold weather. The kids and I were going stir crazy, and it is funny how after -30 weather -10 feels balmy. I took the kids tobogganing and all of them LOVED it. Skyler has asked every day since to go. After I got Ethan to go down the first time he was on the sled every time after. Miss Ryley hates being held by her brothers, but if I was holding her on the way down she was happy as could be.

Then Skyler and Jordan made a snowman in our backyard, and they didn't even need a hat and mitts. If it weren't for the the headaches I would be Chinooks biggest fan.

Funny Kid

2010-11-27T19:15:00.001-08:00

For some reason Ethan always finds this old sweat band, and loves wearing it around the house.

Then, once I had the camera out to catch a picture of that, Ryley followed me around the house saying cheese. I love these kids!

Happy Birthday Dad

2010-11-18T18:40:00.000-08:00

My Dad celebrated his birthday last week, and I wanted to post a little about him. My dad is one of my best friends, he is a confidant and friend. I talk to my Mom daily, and my Dad almost as often. I know that I can always talk to him and he can help walk me through tough decisions. Jordan and I value his opinion, and have, on multiple occasions put off making decisions until we could talk to him first.

My dad was released from the hospital following a bone marrow transplant the day before I was married. At the time we were not certain that he would see me get married, and then came Skyler, my first child - a miracle that he could be there to meet my baby, and now he has been around for three children to join my family, and has a special relationship with all of them. My boys love to 'work' with grandpa, which I am sure is more for the treats then the time spent making a mess for my Dad to clean up.

Every year when his birthday comes I truly count my blessings that my dad is here with us, and a happy active part of our lives.

There are some great men in the world, and I think my dad is one of the best!

Randoms

2010-11-18T18:25:00.000-08:00

I was looking through my camera today and there are just some random, pictures that I wanted to document for my family - they make ma smile.

Miss Ryley has dresses, and I mean she has a LOT of dresses! It is so fun dressing up little girls; this is something that I enjoy, my mom enjoys, my mother in law enjoys, and so does my brothers girlfriend. Isn't this dress cute!! Jame's girlfriend, Marly who we all adore has a fun time picking out cute clothes that she 'just has to get' Ryley.We are lacking in mature trees around our house, so there is not a lot a fall leaves to play in, so we raked an elderly neighbors leaves - this was the best day, and my kids LOVED it! It just feels so good doing something for someone else, although in this case, it was not a sacrifice at all - you should have seen how much fun my boys were having.
And this picture just makes me laugh, my mom was helping bundle up the kids last night and I looked over, and Ethan resembled and arctic nun, not sure that there are nuns in the arctic, but if there are, and they wear blue and orange instead of black and white then I think Ethan has the look nailed.Tonight when we were just finishing up dinner Jordan suggests that they build a fort, so off he goes with all of the kids while I clean up dinner, and they created a masterful fort to watch a movie and eat popcorn in. I Love so much that Jordan looks for fun things to do with the kids, and I know that the kids have a blast spending time with him.

Family is great, life would be pretty boring without it.

Family Photos 2010

2010-11-01T19:21:00.000-07:00

My Sister in Law did it again. I love having a photographer in the family. We just went down to the ridge in Cranston, and the sun was setting. We took pictures until there was no light left. I love the color and how they capture my family this year, at this stage of life.

Funeral of Edgar Allan Poe

2010-11-01T18:35:00.000-07:00

This year the theme for our Halloween Party was Edgar Allan Poe. He was a cryptic author, with a few well know pieces. We thought the theme could be more sophisticated and still sufficiently creepy. We decided to do a murder mystery for the activity, and searched the internet for a murder mystery written on Poe, but were unsuccesful, although in this search we learned a lot about the death of Poe, which coincidentally is quite suspicious. Jordan decided that he could write a murder mystery based on Poe. A little more research and he had a fantastic evening planned where all of the characters were actual people from the life of Edgar Allan Poe. This was planned with Bree again, so she concentrated on decor, while I did all of the food. The evening started out with 'wine' and cheese, we then served Prime Rib, mashed potatoes, carrotts, yorkshires, cauliflower and cheese sauce. Most of the murder mystery was played out throughout dinner, but we finished up with some black Pina Colada's squares and lots of different chocolates. Our decor had a definite bird theme to go along with Poe's "The Raven" Some of the guests put a lot of work into their costumes
some lucked out at Value Village, but regardless it was a fantastic night and we had a lot of fun.

Finale in Halloween Dinners

2010-10-29T17:20:00.000-07:00

So tonight is my last Halloween dinner for my kids. Tomorrow is our adult Halloween Party and then the festivities are over in our home. Tonight I cooked dinner in a pumpkin, and it was really tasty. Pumpkin is soo good for you too, so you can feel good about eating it. I didn't make another dessert, although I did teach my sister in law how to make witches fingers yesterday, so that counts right? We will probably actually dip apples on Sunday, but we will see how our day goes.

Kids Halloween

2010-10-28T17:34:00.001-07:00

This year for Halloween I had a strawberry, and very cool Tiger and Bumble bee the Transformer. This one took by far the most work, and my personal favorite are the taillights on Skylers little behind.

I LOVE these kids, and seeing them happy just makes my heart melt.

More Spooky Foods

2010-10-18T18:20:00.000-07:00

Last week we had a pinwheel snake, and then bones with goblin goo, which I forgot to grab a picture of, but they were so yummy they went pretty fast.

This week we had baked bones and worms. Ryley LOVED the bones, and the whole family enjoyed snacking on worms while catching a movie tonight.

From the mouth of Skyler

2010-10-16T16:21:00.000-07:00

I asked Skyler what he would like for dinner, and he told me we should make bodies with lots of cuts and blood (a little morbid hey, maybe there is too much halloween in our family)

I respond by asking him if we should cook him up. He quickly tells me that we need to do this with food that looks like a person and ketchup blood.

When I insist that cooking him would be much easier. he responds "No, cuz then you won't have the son that does dishes"

right... we should have the other son then?

wait, he had a response for that too.

"No because then it would be boring!"

Jordan thinks that I should preface this and explain that I had been talking about our spooky food for the week being baked bones - I just figure if you know me, and really do read my blog then you would know that we celebrate any holiday we can think of and have promised my kids to make a halloween meal each week during the month of October.

Wedding Gift

2010-10-11T18:17:00.000-07:00

Jordan's Cousin Emily is getting married this weekend, and we are excited to see her on this special day. She is actually more than just Jordan's cousin, she was a Beehive in my ward when I was a Laurel, and I can remember some great late night talks with her at Young Womens Camp. She knew that Jordan and I were dating before his family did because Jordan chose to keep that little bit of information to himself.

I found some super cute aprons at Winners and picked one up for myself and one for Emily, and then I etched her 'new' last name onto a glass baking dish, added a brownie mix, icing and a gift card for grocery's and I think it turned out pretty cute. Yay for weddings!

Do You Love Me?

2010-10-11T17:01:00.000-07:00

so those that know me know that I am NOT into video games, and never have been. I occasionally humor Jordan and play the Wii with him, but it is not something that I would ever chose to do. Skyler asked me today "Mommy do you love me?" to which I easily replied of course I do. Then came the follow up question "Do you love me enough to play games with me?" I HATE playing games, but I do LOVE Skyler - What am I going to do with this kid?

Spooky Foods

2010-10-07T10:17:00.000-07:00

Since Halloween is on a Sunday this year my house is decorated for the kids a little earlier, and I decided that I would make them one Halloween themed meal a week for the month of October. This week we had Mummy Dogs, and a spooky monster ice cream cake. The kids loved it, and it was super easy, so we will look for something to do next week.

Miss Ryley

2010-10-07T10:10:00.000-07:00

This little girl has personality! She knows what she wants/likes and makes certain that you know too. She loves hats of any kind, if she finds them she brings them to you to put on her. She actually has a pretty impressive collection of hats, and I think this is cute, so I totally buy into it.

She also LOVES her blanket and bear. She was given a pink teddy bear by my brother who brought it up to the hospital the day after she was born with Skyler and Ethan. It has been in her bed ever since, including her month long stay in the NICU. I have tried looking for a spare, but he bought it at Safeway, and the identifiable tags have long ago been lovingly worn off - so we guard the bear because I value my sleep.

Her blanket was made by my Mother in Law for her and she knows it is hers. The other day I was washing it after yet another bloody nose (we are on 3 so far this week) and I put her down for a nap with another blanket; Needless to say it was a less than stellar nap, and she just cried for her blanket when she found it in the basket.

I love this little monkey, and all of her personality. Ryley makes me laugh every day, and I am so grateful for her.

A Visit to Urgent Care

2010-09-05T20:16:00.000-07:00

It is not uncommon for there to be blood on Ryley's bedding when I get her up in the mornings, there is not normally a lot, but I wash her bedding about 3 times a week to avoid stains from said blood. I have just assumed that she hit her nose, and there was nothing to worry about. I went to get her up after her nap yesterday and it looked like a massacre had taken place and blood was pouring out of her nose. We ended up in urgent care where I had to pin down my baby so they could cauterize her nose. Hopefully that takes care of it, but if we have more issues in the next couple of weeks we will have to do some blood work to check for anemia and bleeding disorders. I am hoping that it is just our dry climate. She was happy as could be mind you, with the exception of my constantly wiping blood off of her face.

Happy Birthday Stephen!

2010-09-05T20:09:00.000-07:00

It was my youngest brother Stephen's birthday today, but my parents are in AZ and he just got home this evening from a trip to AZ. Naturally being the wonderful sister that I am we had him over for dinner and sang happy birthday to him. Unfortunately for him it was Ryley's birthday 2 days ago and I didn't want any more extra cake, so we put candles in Ryley's half eaten cake!

The Calgary Zoo

2010-09-04T14:15:00.000-07:00

We try to make it to all of the attractions around the city about once a year, and that includes the zoo, which happened quite late this year, and we didn't get it in until today, on the September long weekend. It is really just a nice walk although is was pretty busy today.the kids had fun seeing the different animals, Skyler walked around holding his nose the WHOLE time, and Ryley kept trying to get into the animal cages. They have the moving dinosaurs there right now which the boys really wanted to see, and after a small breakdown from Ethan because he was certain that the dinosaur was going to eat himboth boys did end up enjoying themselves, even if Ethan kept a death grip on my hand as long as we were anywhere near a dinosaur.

My baby is ONE

2010-09-04T13:55:00.000-07:00

My baby girl, who for all intents and purposes is a complete miracle celebrated her first birthday yesterday. She was a twin, and we lost the twin early in the pregnancy. After many tests (although I refused the amnio which was the only way to be certain) I was told to expect a baby with downs syndrome, then she decided to maker her appearance over 6 weeks early and proceed to struggle through her first month of life giving us one really good scare where she coded and gave the nurses and doctors a run for their money to revive her. We are soo happy that is here with us, and I feel so very blessed to be able to raise this sweet little girl. I have a cute little party planned for her, but then both of her grandparents were out of town for her birthday (the curse of having a birthday around the labour day weekend) so I thought about doing it next weekend, but I have 3 meals for the mission home, and a shower that I am putting on, so instead I quickly did up a butterfly cake so that we could sing to her, have cake, and let her go to town.Se got some super cute clothes for her birthday which I love, and she got some fun musical toys. That seems to be her thing right now dancing and making noise.
Ryley is soo close to walking, and will just take off one of these days I am sure. She loves to climb up to the bottom stair and the scoot her bum to the end so she can stand up and walk away. She is a fantastic eater, probably my best eater and loves all kinds of foods. She loved her daddy and has made a point to excitedly call to him when she sees him, even though I have to work for a mom from her. She responds nicely to princess and pretty girl which I think she is referred to more often than her real name. Her brothers tell her daily, if not hourly how much they love her and she rarely has a moment to herself without someone showing her how much she is loved which sometimes she lets us know she could do without. I love my baby girl so much and she brings me more joy each day.

School Starts again

2010-09-03T10:48:00.000-07:00

I have mixed feelings this time of year. I love the change of seasons, and i LOVE routine and schedules, but I also love having my kids around and ready for a spur of the moment trip to the park, or Calaway. Skyler was soo excited to start school, and he was thrilled that he had a friend in his class. It turns out that all of his church friends are in afternoon classes, but he is in the morning, and thankfully the one other kid in mornings is also in his class. We walked to school, which was nice, but it is far enough away that after we walked home it was time to go and pick him back up. At least we only have one more day of staggered entry, and then things will be more normal. My baby is growing up!

Waterton Oilmans

2010-08-29T15:11:00.001-07:00

My Dad has golfed in this tournament for as long as I can remember. In fact he said that he has only missed one year since he started golfing in it, and that was the year that I was married, and he was in the hospital for a bone marrow transplant and associated complications.

This year Jordan got to golf in it. He is totally legit since he works in the oil and gas industry, but it is a closed tournament, so you need an 'in' to be able to play, and then once you play you get you application every year after.

It was a fun weekend! There is a ladies scramble which some time I will play, but for now I have 3 little munchkins to keep me busy. I had a fun weekend planned where I would take the kids up Red Rock Canyon, go to the candy store, watch a parade, eat lots of junk, but the weather really didn't cooperate, but we had fun anyways.

Jordan lost his games on Saturday so he played in a scramble Sunday and won!!! That will keep you coming back.

Now we need to get some more younger people to come out. I had a really fun time at the banquet, but that was mostly laughing at the men's poor dancing abilities!

Body Worlds

2010-08-11T20:11:00.001-07:00

I have some great friends, and today one of them called and offered me free tickets to Body Worlds at Telus World of Science. Jordan and I had talked about taking the kids, since Skyler is so fascinated about the body, but the $80 didn't seem worth it. While I still wouldn't pay the big bucks, it was soo great. The kids loved the exhibit, and then had a blast in the other kids area. I LOVE this kind of stuff, and it was slightly morbid knowing that it was all real specimens, and not replicas - it was still really cool!